"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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**** Man WTF

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Nex

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OK I'm pretty much pissed off . . .

Yesterday I wen't to a rock concert which had well over 5000 people, everyone my age and basically all the noticeable social groups in my city . . .

WELL, THEN I started approaching and nothing - WTF. Each time I approach I'd try the same approach a couple of times and then I'd ajust it . . .

By the end I had approached 29 girls and gotten 29 rejections - WTF!!

I'm pissed because rock concerts / bars / clubs are MY pick-up places, it's what I'm good at . . .

****, roll with the punches. MAN, it's the physical. I've got my personally set, but it's the physical. Which is why I'm gonna start bulking.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You didn't provide a lot of information here.

Give us examples of things you said
Do you have a photo of yourself?
 
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There are nights, when nothing goes as planned. Just get used to it.

And juding from your post, you were a bit drunk when writing it :rolleyes:
 
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Don't get discouraged. It just sounds like you are trying too hard and possibly coming off a little needy. It's good to force yourself to do approaches, but remember to get into the right state of mind when you do it. You are obviously self-conscious about your body, so work on that. Exercise boosts your testosterone and confidence levels.

Try doing approaches after a nice, hard workout. You will be surprised how easy everything goes when you got a nice testosterone boost. Plus you just finished overcoming personal challenges, which is a great place from which to execute your game. (Just be sure to shower first!)

PS - Drinking can hurt your game. (unless it is tequila, used in moderation of course)
 
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