"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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**** Man WTF

Nex

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OK I'm pretty much pissed off . . .

Yesterday I wen't to a rock concert which had well over 5000 people, everyone my age and basically all the noticeable social groups in my city . . .

WELL, THEN I started approaching and nothing - WTF. Each time I approach I'd try the same approach a couple of times and then I'd ajust it . . .

By the end I had approached 29 girls and gotten 29 rejections - WTF!!

I'm pissed because rock concerts / bars / clubs are MY pick-up places, it's what I'm good at . . .

****, roll with the punches. MAN, it's the physical. I've got my personally set, but it's the physical. Which is why I'm gonna start bulking.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MindOverMatter

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You didn't provide a lot of information here.

Give us examples of things you said
Do you have a photo of yourself?
 

Slimijs

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There are nights, when nothing goes as planned. Just get used to it.

And juding from your post, you were a bit drunk when writing it :rolleyes:
 

Don Ronny

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Don't get discouraged. It just sounds like you are trying too hard and possibly coming off a little needy. It's good to force yourself to do approaches, but remember to get into the right state of mind when you do it. You are obviously self-conscious about your body, so work on that. Exercise boosts your testosterone and confidence levels.

Try doing approaches after a nice, hard workout. You will be surprised how easy everything goes when you got a nice testosterone boost. Plus you just finished overcoming personal challenges, which is a great place from which to execute your game. (Just be sure to shower first!)

PS - Drinking can hurt your game. (unless it is tequila, used in moderation of course)
 
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