Man, should I walk away??

[Pac_Man]

This girl I've been seeing says to me "I don't want to be exclusive." Is this the kiss of death like "Let's just be friends?" Do I just walk away from this or what?? Pardon the afcness.

 

[NRM]

Yes move on and next her. Just think to yourself. If you were really interested in a woman, would you EVER tell her that you don't want to be exclusive? Of course not. You want to be available to them. It only makes sense.

 

[squirrels]

It could mean, "I just want sex." And it could mean, "I don't want anything."

Which it is depends on context.

 

[Dirtheart]

I think she wants to sleep around, but rather than dumping you, it sounds like she wants to keep you tagging along (if you're willing) for when her options are limited.

Drop her immediately! Women like that will destroy your self-esteem and will possible end up manipulating you.

 

[Cremasta]

The only correct response to that is to give her a big smile and thumbs up... "Excellent!!!"

 

[dietzcoi]

Sounds like a woman with lots of male "friends"

Say good bye

Dietzcoi

 

[kyokon]

I don't think this is an entirely negative situation. This happened to me recently with a girl I had been going out with for a while. However she really sucked as a girlfriend so it was the best thing that could have happened, why the hell didn't she say so sooner? In her case though, she is quite shy and I know that I am the only guy banging her, and the banging is a regular event so I am very happy with the outcome.
So I would suggest, firstly forget all about having a bf/gf relationship, and if you are not already shagging her then drop her altogether. If you have already slept together and want more, do what Cremasta said, then try the new situation for a while. If you dont get what you want from it, then drop her later on - no need to burn bridges now if you dont need to.

Incidentally my girl seems much more interested in me now that I've made it clear that she is not as important to me as she first thought...

 

[biker_gixxer]

Originally posted by Pac_Man
This girl I've been seeing says to me "I don't want to be exclusive." Is this the kiss of death like "Let's just be friends?" Do I just walk away from this or what?? Pardon the afcness.

Depends on what YOU want bro. If all you want is an "F" buddy, say 'cool, that works'. But if you're in it for a 'relationship', haul a$$, don't walk.