"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Man, should I walk away??
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
squirrels
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Which it is depends on context.
Drop her immediately! Women like that will destroy your self-esteem and will possible end up manipulating you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So I would suggest, firstly forget all about having a bf/gf relationship, and if you are not already shagging her then drop her altogether. If you have already slept together and want more, do what Cremasta said, then try the new situation for a while. If you dont get what you want from it, then drop her later on - no need to burn bridges now if you dont need to.
Incidentally my girl seems much more interested in me now that I've made it clear that she is not as important to me as she first thought...
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Depends on what YOU want bro. If all you want is an "F" buddy, say 'cool, that works'. But if you're in it for a 'relationship', haul a$$, don't walk.