"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Master Bates
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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However there are some "man purses" out there that really serve no purpose as they are about big enough to fit a wallet, keys, and a pack of smokes. Its pretty much redundant as thats what you have pockets for.
englishman
Master Don Juan
http://mdx9388.k12.sd.us/im luggin it.jpgenglishman said:what else you going to do if you have a load of stuff to carry around? push a ****ing whell barrow around?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
englishman
Master Don Juan
looks like some of the guys i work with.HandyAndy said:
In Motion
Senior Don Juan
Yeah, but he has a gun.HandyAndy said:
In Motion said:Yeah, but he has a gun.
So you can carry one too
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
They even use the same Jack Bauer picture.
I might get a messenger bag if my backpack wasn't perfect. It's designed to carry a laptop in a separate area and it's got more pockets and compartments than I can ever use. Once it dies on me I may get a messenger bag, and a gun to go with it.
http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7341384/c/1162.html
Wow, but a bit too pricey.