"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Man offers $10K for someone to set him up with girlfriend.

MatureDJ

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https://gma.yahoo.com/man-girlfriend-hell-pay-10k-162900132--abc-news-sex.html

He's an Asian and looks to be a very good shape, although he's probably short, and thus gets little traction with women. :cuss: Oh, and he's a Harvard MBA, with a hard-working, and I'm sure well-paid, career.

He also seems to have gone MGTOW to some degree and just has given up on doing all the social BS things just to meet women. He's busy enough with his job, and likes to spend his off-time on his outdoor activities - can't really do that when you're swilling at the local nightclub.

Of course, his situation is really just a very sad commentary about the American singles' social scene. A young professional like this in my father's & uncle's day had folks beating down their doors with offers to date good, never married (or at least childless) women, who were in good shape. Now, if a man is not "playing game" at every opportunity, he misses out (and even playing game, still misses out a lot of times.)
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What is the guarantee he'll pay you? The stipulation is that he has to be with the girl you bring to him for 6 months. Some people by that time would have forgotten about you. On that basis not applying to help him find a girl!
 

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I bet most of his colleagues in his workplace are not single despite 12 hour work days. I wonder if his talk of "efficiency" is masking for some other obstacles such as the ones eluded to above.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just goes.to show how desperate some guys are in the dating scene. If a guy isn't socially positioned correctly or out approaching, he's invisible essentially.

I guess it's not that different than paying to get onto a dating site though.
 

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10k is a drop in the bucket for this guy. If you enter private equity after hbs you can get 300k a year or more. Rather spend more time trying to get promoted and jump to the 500k plus mark than spending time chasing girls and losing that opportunity.
 

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Dear MDJ,
"A young professional like this in my father's & uncle's day had folks beating down their doors with offers to date good, never married (or at least childless) women, who were in good shape."....Not how I remember it,bad as things are they are immeasurably better than 50 years ago... ...I am at most a little younger,than your Father or Uncle...One of my earliest recollections at 18 was going to a Dance,those Days the Women sat on chairs,one side of a big hall,the Men at the opposite side...I watched a very respectable young Italian Man,impeccably dressed,he was a Radiographer at our only Hospital....He crossed the floor,that took courage in itself, and proceed along the line of Girls,politely asking them to dance,all refused when near the end of the line there were hoots of derisive laughter,seems one polite young Demoiselle had expressed her feelings rather loudly with a contemptuous"I don't dance with Wogs"...Two thirds of Western Women are born bvitches,and however you will slice them stay that way,for my Money they are only good enough to be taken out to the County Dump and piled up with all the other Faggotts.
 

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Notice he's an Asian in Alabama. That's got to be a factor in his dating problems.
what the **** lol
 

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He almost have six pack , I am sure in he is in a place when there is no asian women around him , I think he can go to china and bring a wife with him .
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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