"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man of the nights watch.

Rainman4707

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I love my job. I get to study, read books. I get paid for stuff I would choose to do in my free time. How can you get better than that!?
Sometimes I have to pinch myself to realise that this is actually real. I sit around watching movies & get paid for it. I'm a night watchman. Also I get the extra hours I need to make a good wage.

It does have some bad points. Unsociable hours for one.

Thing that worries me the most though is my health. Studies say that nightshift is bad for ones health.
Stomach problems, increased risk of heart disease. I do eat healthy, fruit, veg. I do exercise too & on some jobs there is a lot of walking to do.

I'm happy in my work, but if its going to kill me...I might start looking for something else

Couple of links below.

http://www.americanscientist.org/issues/pub/night-shift-belly

http://www.shen-nong.com/eng/lifestyles/tcmrole_sleep_shift.html
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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