Man is haunted by wife's college days casually sexing "handsome", "good catch" men

[Huffman]

I think this was a huge "sh!t test", or, in any case, a power move.

Now we don't know if she wants to destroy the marriage, or wants to heavily disrespect him, or maybe just a little as couples do. If this is really the only such incident then shouldn't be a very big deal as the woman said.

Otherwise...

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I think this was a huge "sh!t test", or, in any case, a power move.

Now we don't know if she wants to destroy the marriage, or wants to heavily disrespect him, or maybe just a little as couples do. If this is really the only such incident then shouldn't be a very big deal as the woman said.

Otherwise...

It's possible she "didn't know"... Also it's possible she was "sh1tting" upon him. We don't know only she does.

I still think he's entitled to more sex than they had.

 

[YawataNoKami]

This guy just got a taste of the red pill shoved down his throat.

If you look at his language, he says: "I knew about two other past loves". That is how he rationalized her banging two other guys. Wrapping that inside of the "love" context let him view her as a "good" girl. And now, 20 years into the marriage, he finds out she blew two "hawt" guys. So his entire image of her as his little special snowflake has been shattered.

That's is why this guy is so freaked out. And that is why it will keep eating at him. Something like that is a game changer in a marriage or LTR.

-Augustus-

More like a red pill enema.