"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man-imony

goodfoot

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This is crazy! Anderson Cooper has a show on tomorrow about women who are paying men alimony. This was bound to happen with women outpacing men in getting degrees and men being hit hardest by the economic hardships right now. I just can't believe the double standard being put on display like this without some backlash.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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goodfoot

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samspade said:
I'm not defending the idea, but isn't women paying men alimony the opposite of a double-standard?
That is my point. Men have been getting hit with this kind of thing for years, but the moment it happens to a woman it is a travesty. Why is it news now but not before?
 

zekko

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Like you said, it was bound to happen.
It's still a little surprising to see some fair-minded judges out there though.
 

mrRuckus

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Hot dog.

Time to join the gravy train. Off to marry a fat, career girl so I can sign up for my perma-check. See you!
 
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