"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Man-imony

goodfoot

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This is crazy! Anderson Cooper has a show on tomorrow about women who are paying men alimony. This was bound to happen with women outpacing men in getting degrees and men being hit hardest by the economic hardships right now. I just can't believe the double standard being put on display like this without some backlash.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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goodfoot

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samspade said:
I'm not defending the idea, but isn't women paying men alimony the opposite of a double-standard?
That is my point. Men have been getting hit with this kind of thing for years, but the moment it happens to a woman it is a travesty. Why is it news now but not before?
 

zekko

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Like you said, it was bound to happen.
It's still a little surprising to see some fair-minded judges out there though.
 

mrRuckus

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Hot dog.

Time to join the gravy train. Off to marry a fat, career girl so I can sign up for my perma-check. See you!
 
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