"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Man hanging out with boy, is this unreasonable?

FuzzX

FuzzX

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The key here is 'Your sister's kids', niece and nephew, blood. This is a big difference my dude. You are doing your sister a service by watching them because she knows she can trust you. Is her husband opposed to you being there? In this case, the father is in opposition and doesn't want another guy interfering, let alone a man of the same age. Autism or not, there is no way this is going to look good to the law or a social worker. If you have friends 18 or over, you should seek out those people, having close personal friendships and discussing topics like sex or dating is pretty inappropriate with a pre-teen. There's nothing wrong with enjoying kid's hobbies, culture or media. There is something wrong with enjoying the kid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Zontyy

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It's sounds extremely weird, are you sure the guy isn't just simping really hard so he can try and get in the pants of the mother. I've known a few guys that do that they orbit the girl and become like a second dad to the kid in hopes of getting some. If that is not the case the guy the relationship is not normal and she should seek out friendships with adults.

Edit: Nevermind I just saw your reply about not looking for dates or trying to get with the mom. Yea the guy needs to be evaluated.
 
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