"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Man hanging out with boy, is this unreasonable?

FuzzX

FuzzX

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The key here is 'Your sister's kids', niece and nephew, blood. This is a big difference my dude. You are doing your sister a service by watching them because she knows she can trust you. Is her husband opposed to you being there? In this case, the father is in opposition and doesn't want another guy interfering, let alone a man of the same age. Autism or not, there is no way this is going to look good to the law or a social worker. If you have friends 18 or over, you should seek out those people, having close personal friendships and discussing topics like sex or dating is pretty inappropriate with a pre-teen. There's nothing wrong with enjoying kid's hobbies, culture or media. There is something wrong with enjoying the kid.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zontyy

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It's sounds extremely weird, are you sure the guy isn't just simping really hard so he can try and get in the pants of the mother. I've known a few guys that do that they orbit the girl and become like a second dad to the kid in hopes of getting some. If that is not the case the guy the relationship is not normal and she should seek out friendships with adults.

Edit: Nevermind I just saw your reply about not looking for dates or trying to get with the mom. Yea the guy needs to be evaluated.
 
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