"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man faces criminal charges for reading wife's e-mail

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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amoka

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Stupid guy. I would have printed out those emails particularly since she granted him an access to the email previously... I doubt he will be found guilty though.
 

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So basically it's a crime to look at your wife's email, but there's nothing wrong with violating marriage vows and the trust of your husband by carrying on a secret affair. In a more sane society, there would be some kind of equivalent justice there.

Ah f*** it... I accepted a long time ago that the world we live in is beyond f***ed up and illogical. lol
 

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Note that the prosecutor's name is Jessica .
My gut is telling me that this is just another example of a feminist lawyer in public office misusing her position by supporting a cheating sister in some twisted attempt to portray her as a victim of a snooping husband. Once again we see women's favorite game in progress - "Find a way to turn the blame on the man."
What an atrocious waste of the Court's time and an abuse of the legal system in general. Frivolous charges like this needs to be ridiculed for the mindless leftist crud that inspires them .

Does this mean that your wife is similarly committing a felony by checking your pockets for evidence of cheating . If she sniffs your collar for perfume or checks it for lipstick is she violating your right to privacy?

Jeez, this crap makes me wanna kick some fatazz femme butt.
 

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Double what I said ^^. Grrrr !
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it scares me to think this kind of thing could be heading to the UK
 

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Jophil28 said:
My gut is telling me that this is just another example of a feminist lawyer in public office misusing her position by supporting a cheating sister in some twisted attempt to portray her as a victim of a snooping husband.
And another example of the culture (and feminism) weaking the state of marriage. Aren't the husband and wife supposed to be "one flesh"? Isn't this why they split everything 50/50 when they get divorced?

I find it hard to square the idea that couples are supposed to have co-ownership of all their assets (no matter whose name they are in) with the idea that it is a crime to look at your wife's email. This seems to suggest that spouses are seperate all along, rather than "one flesh", doesn't it?
 

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I hope the judge is a middle aged male, is divorced, votes republican and is a life member of the NRA .
 

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You guys need to understand that this is taking place in Detroit MI, which is near where I grew up and lived almost my entire life. Still have a house there I rent out.

There are two other big things going on right now in Detroit that the prosecutor is working on and one, or both, are influencing this case imo. Ex mayor Kilkpatrick and his fraud and money corruption charges, and also a prostitution case that may or may not involve some higher up big wigs. I can promise you this email case is being brought up and tried because of one of those other two cases....I'm guessing to protect some higher ups that could be implicated if who knows, some emails or phone calls or some other private info was gotten somehow...perhaps illegally. All imo, but this to me screams of a proactive action to protect some other people in those other cases.

So to me this really isn't worth debating, because under normal circumstances, this case would never see the light of day.
 

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cordoncordon said:
You guys need to understand that this is taking place in Detroit MI, which is near where I grew up and lived almost my entire life. Still have a house there I rent out.

There are two other big things going on right now in Detroit that the prosecutor is working on and one, or both, are influencing this case imo. Ex mayor Kilkpatrick and his fraud and money corruption charges, and also a prostitution case that may or may not involve some higher up big wigs. I can promise you this email case is being brought up and tried because of one of those other two cases....I'm guessing to protect some higher ups that could be implicated if who knows, some emails or phone calls or some other private info was gotten somehow...perhaps illegally. All imo, but this to me screams of a proactive action to protect some other people in those other cases.

So to me this really isn't worth debating, because under normal circumstances, this case would never see the light of day.

Nice analysis. Things aren't always so black and white in the world. And multiple agendas can overlap.

My thing is this, the guy was stupid to admit that he snooped. Hell I know three women right now who "hacked" into their husbands email and printed out letters to use as evidence of infidelity. They all say that he "left his email open". happens every day.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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5string said:
You talkin about me again Jophil?:D
ha ha ha ... well,if the cap fits, Sarg :yes: :yes:
 

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jophil28 said:
ha ha ha ... well,if the cap fits, Sarg :yes: :yes:
Actually it does. Expect a complimetary one year memebrship to the NRA. You'll get your 1st copy of American Rifleman soon. :yes:
 
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