MatureDJ
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Man crucified over 12-point list of ‘how to be a beautiful woman’
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
zekko
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He might have gotten by better if he hadn't put those last two points on there: Love men, and Listen to men.
The other point on there about having long hair. From a male standpoint, it's so true - women do look sexier, more beautiful, and more feminine with long hair. Women frigging hate hearing this, though. Some women can pull off a short haired look, but the vast majority will look better with it long.
The other point on there about having long hair. From a male standpoint, it's so true - women do look sexier, more beautiful, and more feminine with long hair. Women frigging hate hearing this, though. Some women can pull off a short haired look, but the vast majority will look better with it long.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It looks more feminine longer
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So they want to have a masculine swagger, be musty and hair arm pits. Not be able to cook or do anything?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Who Dares Win
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And ofc marriage doesnt entitle you of sex, thats not mandatory.
They make the deal as good as possible cant we see?