MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Man crucified over 12-point list of ‘how to be a beautiful woman’
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
zekko
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He might have gotten by better if he hadn't put those last two points on there: Love men, and Listen to men.
The other point on there about having long hair. From a male standpoint, it's so true - women do look sexier, more beautiful, and more feminine with long hair. Women frigging hate hearing this, though. Some women can pull off a short haired look, but the vast majority will look better with it long.
The other point on there about having long hair. From a male standpoint, it's so true - women do look sexier, more beautiful, and more feminine with long hair. Women frigging hate hearing this, though. Some women can pull off a short haired look, but the vast majority will look better with it long.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It looks more feminine longer
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
So they want to have a masculine swagger, be musty and hair arm pits. Not be able to cook or do anything?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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And ofc marriage doesnt entitle you of sex, thats not mandatory.
They make the deal as good as possible cant we see?