"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"Man cave" style bedroom ideas

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I'm moving into a new apartment next week and I'd like to design my bedroom in a "man cave" style.
Got any interesting idea that you saw at other people or something you designed yourself an you're proud of?
The only thing off the table would be a ironically a table(pool table), as the bedroom is not large enough. Gotta stick to my budget :)
To prevent a rant about the idea of a man cave(saw a thread on that on the forum), I'm gonna be crystal clear: I'm moving alone and I'm just looking for design ideas, maybe some of you are interested in this and could help me with a tip or two.
Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think part of it would depend on your interests and hobbies.
 

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lots of stones, dirt, maybe some dry leafs


serious why it matter, its about you, I leave my bedrom just a bed and a wardrobe
 

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A desk the right height for standing sex. A couch that lends itself well to sex and bare skin upon it.

A bear hide from a bear you killed yourself in a fair chase manner.

An Elk Rack over the bed to hold the lace panties after you strip them off.

Lodgepole furniture (bedframe)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A bedroom shouldn't be a "man cave". It should be a place for sleep & sex. You need to get a bigger place to make a proper man cave. As for my man cave, it's a pool table surrounded by pinball machines. (The backglasses of the pins serve the dual purpose of being works of female-form art :cool:) and then some various other things like neon signs and aerospace models (my old profession). and other interesting collectibles and personal ephemera such as the collection of pins from the 300 or so ski areas I've done. Some men put up a lot of sports memorabilia (the only sports thing I have is an old pennant from my NFL team's early years). Of course a very big TV and a proper sitting area would be OK too (I've got too many pins for that, LOL.) The most important thing is that it should be YOU, not just generic stuff that you don't have a passion about.
 
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I'm moving into a new apartment next week and I'd like to design my bedroom in a "man cave" style.
Got any interesting idea that you saw at other people or something you designed yourself an you're proud of?
The only thing off the table would be a ironically a table(pool table), as the bedroom is not large enough. Gotta stick to my budget :)
To prevent a rant about the idea of a man cave(saw a thread on that on the forum), I'm gonna be crystal clear: I'm moving alone and I'm just looking for design ideas, maybe some of you are interested in this and could help me with a tip or two.
Thanks!
Get a big caveman club. Some leather rope. Shackles and a riding crop.
 

Who Dares Win

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Why exactly a bed room and not a living room instead?

As Mature dj told you, the bedroom is for resting not for entertainment.

A living room provided with a big screen ad a kick ass audio system with no useless object or furniture is a great starting point, also keep in mind to isolate walls if you have neightbours since you definitely dont need to hear their voices nor to keep your noise low.

Personally my whole house is a "man cave" since there is basically no useless stuff and each and any object has a purpose...I even put a punching bag rocky style in my garden along with some other tools to train...something a married man wouldnt even talk about.
 

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Good idea posting here, I was not dissapointed with your responses. Thanks!
 

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Camp fire in the middle.

Animal bones strewn about.

Crude paintings on the walls.

A bunch of booby traps to brain anybody who comes in unexpected.

A secret trap door to escape from if the cops show up or a pregnant ex.

A cage to keep captured females in.

A hole to poop in.

Plenty of rat traps.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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andreihaha

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Camp fire in the middle.

Animal bones strewn about.

Crude paintings on the walls.

A bunch of booby traps to brain anybody who comes in unexpected.

A secret trap door to escape from if the cops show up or a pregnant ex.

A cage to keep captured females in.

A hole to poop in.

Plenty of rat traps.
I see a ceirtain theme here...
Yet I didn't ask for homo erectus cave tips.
I am erectus when needed, but homo...nope!
 
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