"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"Man cave" style bedroom ideas

andreihaha

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I'm moving into a new apartment next week and I'd like to design my bedroom in a "man cave" style.
Got any interesting idea that you saw at other people or something you designed yourself an you're proud of?
The only thing off the table would be a ironically a table(pool table), as the bedroom is not large enough. Gotta stick to my budget :)
To prevent a rant about the idea of a man cave(saw a thread on that on the forum), I'm gonna be crystal clear: I'm moving alone and I'm just looking for design ideas, maybe some of you are interested in this and could help me with a tip or two.
Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think part of it would depend on your interests and hobbies.
 

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lots of stones, dirt, maybe some dry leafs


serious why it matter, its about you, I leave my bedrom just a bed and a wardrobe
 

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A desk the right height for standing sex. A couch that lends itself well to sex and bare skin upon it.

A bear hide from a bear you killed yourself in a fair chase manner.

An Elk Rack over the bed to hold the lace panties after you strip them off.

Lodgepole furniture (bedframe)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A bedroom shouldn't be a "man cave". It should be a place for sleep & sex. You need to get a bigger place to make a proper man cave. As for my man cave, it's a pool table surrounded by pinball machines. (The backglasses of the pins serve the dual purpose of being works of female-form art :cool:) and then some various other things like neon signs and aerospace models (my old profession). and other interesting collectibles and personal ephemera such as the collection of pins from the 300 or so ski areas I've done. Some men put up a lot of sports memorabilia (the only sports thing I have is an old pennant from my NFL team's early years). Of course a very big TV and a proper sitting area would be OK too (I've got too many pins for that, LOL.) The most important thing is that it should be YOU, not just generic stuff that you don't have a passion about.
 
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I'm moving into a new apartment next week and I'd like to design my bedroom in a "man cave" style.
Got any interesting idea that you saw at other people or something you designed yourself an you're proud of?
The only thing off the table would be a ironically a table(pool table), as the bedroom is not large enough. Gotta stick to my budget :)
To prevent a rant about the idea of a man cave(saw a thread on that on the forum), I'm gonna be crystal clear: I'm moving alone and I'm just looking for design ideas, maybe some of you are interested in this and could help me with a tip or two.
Thanks!
Get a big caveman club. Some leather rope. Shackles and a riding crop.
 

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Why exactly a bed room and not a living room instead?

As Mature dj told you, the bedroom is for resting not for entertainment.

A living room provided with a big screen ad a kick ass audio system with no useless object or furniture is a great starting point, also keep in mind to isolate walls if you have neightbours since you definitely dont need to hear their voices nor to keep your noise low.

Personally my whole house is a "man cave" since there is basically no useless stuff and each and any object has a purpose...I even put a punching bag rocky style in my garden along with some other tools to train...something a married man wouldnt even talk about.
 

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Good idea posting here, I was not dissapointed with your responses. Thanks!
 

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Camp fire in the middle.

Animal bones strewn about.

Crude paintings on the walls.

A bunch of booby traps to brain anybody who comes in unexpected.

A secret trap door to escape from if the cops show up or a pregnant ex.

A cage to keep captured females in.

A hole to poop in.

Plenty of rat traps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Camp fire in the middle.

Animal bones strewn about.

Crude paintings on the walls.

A bunch of booby traps to brain anybody who comes in unexpected.

A secret trap door to escape from if the cops show up or a pregnant ex.

A cage to keep captured females in.

A hole to poop in.

Plenty of rat traps.
I see a ceirtain theme here...
Yet I didn't ask for homo erectus cave tips.
I am erectus when needed, but homo...nope!
 
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