pipeman84
Master Don Juan
A while back I saw a video on YouTube where a guy with a phone in hand asks a bunch of females their opinion on several Tinder (most probably) profiles of guys. And they would comment, this that bla bla, but when asked: would you go out with him? NO, he's on a dating app, with a kind of shocked/disgusted look on her face. The other girls just giggled and agreed with her.
That girl said straight out loud what I was intuiting already: guys on swipe apps enter a rigged dating game (beside the skewed male/female ratio, fake accounts, overall poor quality of women there etc). They won't command the same level of respect from their potential matches as if it were the case had they met in other, more natural circumstances. So why is that? Well, firstly, if he's a guy who should be seen as a prize, what's he doing in that cesspool? You can't claim to be a fine food aficionado and be seen in some fast food joint serving 3 days old food, can you?
Secondly, he's not a challenge (1/3 of the attraction process according to Doc Love) ... the girl already knows he's sexually/romantically interested in her the first time they meet each other, without her having to do anything to earn it. She just uploaded a few photos (which most probably portray her much more beautiful/hot than she actually is). That's not how it works in real life scenarios where she really has to look nice, smell good, have a pleasant voice and so on before a man makes his interest known.
That girl said straight out loud what I was intuiting already: guys on swipe apps enter a rigged dating game (beside the skewed male/female ratio, fake accounts, overall poor quality of women there etc). They won't command the same level of respect from their potential matches as if it were the case had they met in other, more natural circumstances. So why is that? Well, firstly, if he's a guy who should be seen as a prize, what's he doing in that cesspool? You can't claim to be a fine food aficionado and be seen in some fast food joint serving 3 days old food, can you?
Secondly, he's not a challenge (1/3 of the attraction process according to Doc Love) ... the girl already knows he's sexually/romantically interested in her the first time they meet each other, without her having to do anything to earn it. She just uploaded a few photos (which most probably portray her much more beautiful/hot than she actually is). That's not how it works in real life scenarios where she really has to look nice, smell good, have a pleasant voice and so on before a man makes his interest known.
