"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Man, and breasts

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Originally posted by Capt.Jack Sparrow
Woah woah, slow down there kiddo. You do not need to lose every single pound you have. I've heard reducing your body fat below 5% or something is reeeally bad for you. Don't over do it.
he is a 15.8%....way far from 5%..... and once you hit like 12 or 11% is hard as **** to loose anymore bc your body doesnt want to give it up.... so i dont think he will ever fall to even below like 7 or 8%....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hmm

hmm depending on your age,,, you might have a common condition called gynecomastia it is when female breast tissue builds up a little bit in your chest. 60% of Guys usually get it during puberty when theyre bodies are changing. Most obese teenagers get it because of the extra fat, but fat loss almost always alters the condition and the female tissue dissapears. Most of the time, it goes away in a couple years, but an unlucky few are stuck with it. not to scare ya or anything.


Go to Http://www.gynecomastia.org for more info trust me its a common thing almost all teenagers go thru
 

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lol... it's good to hear it gave you about 5% extra, cause it gave me 23%bf :eek:

Last time I checked I was around 15. you have no idea how much that scared me :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Go to the doctor, check its not gyno.

Get your bodyfat measured with calipers correctly at a gym.

Eat less.

move more ;)
 

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Originally posted by This Times For Real
Cool. you have man boobs to? lol
Yea I want them to go away. Doctor says I have to lose some fat for them to go away and if they don't go away then they might be gyno but she says she doubts it cause I got them when I start puberty and they weren't that big when I was younger and I was pretty overweight wen I was younger
 

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if you have hair around your nipples....that could be a sign you dont have gyno, i suppose
 

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What are some more signs to tell if you don't go gyno.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hard muscular pecs i suppose....
 

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I suffer from this too. I am in pretty good shape but I do have some fat on both sides of my chest, especially the right hand side, that will not respond to diet and excersize and has been there since I was a little kid. It is called gynecomastia and about 15% of men of healthy bodyweight have this problem, so you are not alone. You are only 14, so I would suggest waiting it out until you are at least 20, but if it still is a problem, surgery is an option. It is a fairly simple outpatient procedure practiced by most plastic surgeons, and it is similar to a small scale female breast reduction.
 

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Originally posted by JoeBlack
Go to the doctor, check its not gyno.

Get your bodyfat measured with calipers correctly at a gym.

Eat less.

move more ;)
If thats aimed at me JB. there's no need ;) I move enough as it is.

I got 15% about a year back. I'm in better shape now than I was then, the mirror says 12%, but obviously I cant be sure. Either way, I look good from where I'm standing, and thas' all that matters, heh

btw... if you're complaining about having bad pecks and yours look like his. Wake the **** up, lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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