The Spider
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anyone else have trouble with mall pick up?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mall pick up?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Just a Shot Away
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Hahaha, changed your mind already, huh? One second you're going to kill yourself and now you're going to the mall to pick up girls. At last, a FUNNY troll. Big Jimbo and Mantis Taboogan are starting to get really old.
The Spider
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im not a troll i never said anything about killing myself you freakJust a Shot Away said:
Just a Shot Away
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The Spider said:
The Spider said:
Your trolling is slipping. It's not as funny, now.
The Spider
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arizonas ice peeJust a Shot Away said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonJuanit0
Master Don Juan
Have you ever checked your IQ score btw? Pls let us know if you did!
falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
this guy is a ****ing idiot