The Spider
Don Juan
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anyone else have trouble with mall pick up?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
im not a troll i never said anything about killing myself you freakJust a Shot Away said:Hahaha, changed your mind already, huh? One second you're going to kill yourself and now you're going to the mall to pick up girls. At last, a FUNNY troll. Big Jimbo and Mantis Taboogan are starting to get really old.
The Spider said:ive already told all my family members and now im telling you im killing myself
The Spider said:im not a troll i never said anything about killing myself you freak
arizonas ice peeJust a Shot Away said:Your trolling is slipping. It's not as funny, now.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I guess you are jealous because I am not stuck with American females? Learn some Russian and when you get older maybe you can save some money and travel. You will thank me when you do.Just a Shot Away said:Hahaha, changed your mind already, huh? One second you're going to kill yourself and now you're going to the mall to pick up girls. At last, a FUNNY troll. Big Jimbo and Mantis Taboogan are starting to get really old.
that's ok, I prefer when my women shave and aren't communists. Lol :woo:BigJimbo said:I guess you are jealous because I am not stuck with American females? Learn some Russian and when you get older maybe you can save some money and travel. You will thank me when you do.