The Spider
Don Juan
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- Mar 1, 2010
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anyone else have trouble with mall pick up?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
im not a troll i never said anything about killing myself you freakJust a Shot Away said:Hahaha, changed your mind already, huh? One second you're going to kill yourself and now you're going to the mall to pick up girls. At last, a FUNNY troll. Big Jimbo and Mantis Taboogan are starting to get really old.
The Spider said:ive already told all my family members and now im telling you im killing myself
The Spider said:im not a troll i never said anything about killing myself you freak
arizonas ice peeJust a Shot Away said:Your trolling is slipping. It's not as funny, now.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I guess you are jealous because I am not stuck with American females? Learn some Russian and when you get older maybe you can save some money and travel. You will thank me when you do.Just a Shot Away said:Hahaha, changed your mind already, huh? One second you're going to kill yourself and now you're going to the mall to pick up girls. At last, a FUNNY troll. Big Jimbo and Mantis Taboogan are starting to get really old.
that's ok, I prefer when my women shave and aren't communists. Lol :woo:BigJimbo said:I guess you are jealous because I am not stuck with American females? Learn some Russian and when you get older maybe you can save some money and travel. You will thank me when you do.