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[B80]

Learning to be nearly fearless in cold approach, and being good about pulling the trigger, has had the biggest impact on my romantic life. Doing that was the only way I had multiple women in my pipeline and ended up having to choose between which one I wanted to date, and having little care if things didn't work out with another. The empowerment that gives you manifests itself in so many ways that it leads to even greater abundance, because women can just smell the lack of neediness on you, and sense that there are other women vying for your attention.

I make it a habit to talk to women anywhere I am, even ones I'm not attracted to just to practice. The more you do it, the more you realize people won't react negatively like you assume. It's tough now with COVID but just hold out a bit longer and things should be back to normal soon.

Cheers mate, makes sense and ties in with so many other posts on this site.

Out of interest did you find alcohol initially helped with the approaches or did you just throw yourself in at the deepend and do it sober?

I always make a point of chatting to the hottest girl in the supermarket to try on work on that side of things.

 

[oldmanofthesea]

Out of interest did you find alcohol initially helped with the approaches or did you just throw yourself in at the deepend and do it sober?

No, you have to do it sober in my opinion. The learning and lessons stick better that way and the interactions usually go a lot better. You are more observant and able to take cues from them too. I actually don't even like approaching when I'm tipsy these days because I'm not as quick on my feet.

 

[B80]

No, you have to do it sober in my opinion. The learning and lessons stick better that way and the interactions usually go a lot better. You are more observant and able to take cues from them too. I actually don't even like approaching when I'm tipsy these days because I'm not as quick on my feet.

I know what you mean, alcohol sometimes makes you more lethargic and less sharp. I find it helps remove over thinking when chatting to women, but it's clearly a crux.

Phenibut is a bit more subtle, but helps take the edge off things. But again, another crux.

Then sleep less, take modafinil to compensate lack of sleep, end up in a whirlwind of drugs.

Need a few weeks to reset the clock.

 

[B80]

Does this female really care about anyone? I mean she cares more about her career than her daughter. I'm sure you'll get more and more disgusted.

Yeah may have painted a harsh picture, but makes you wary of entering any kind of committed relationship. Not that I can talk, going by my last post

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah may have painted a harsh picture, but makes you wary of entering any kind of committed relationship. Not that I can talk, going by my last post

Is it really that bleak overall?

 

[B80]

Is it really that bleak overall?

Nah, meant with this particular woman.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Nah, meant with this particular woman.

True she a dark hearted lady

 

[Barrister]

True she a dark hearted lady

Any woman that has zero empathy/affection for children should be avoided automatically unless you are dating casually. This generally means they are lacking overall feminine traits and are not compatible for anything long-term. And I don't necessarily mean that you have to want to have kids yourself - but any woman I have known that is worth anything is naturally good with kids. I have learned the hard way otherwise.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Any woman that has zero empathy/affection for children should be avoided automatically unless you are dating casually. This generally means they are lacking overall feminine traits and are not compatible for anything long-term. And I don't necessarily mean that you have to want to kids yourself - but any woman I have known that is worth anything is naturally good with kids. I have learned the hard way otherwise.

Even casually dating, if she don't have that much empathy for kids, how much empathy can she have for you?

 

[Barrister]

Even casually dating, if she don't have that much empathy for kids, how much empathy can she have for you?

You make a good point!

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You make a good point!

Dark heart just don't feel "good" to be around, i'm sure after hitting it once or twice i wouldn't want to be round her that much.

 

[B80]

Even casually dating, if she don't have that much empathy for kids, how much empathy can she have for you?

Exactly, how she's alluded to sacking people and only giving a **** for 30 seconds, then snippets of behaviour around her daughter, makes me feel she'd have no qualms getting rid of men in her life. Can imagine she takes a lot of people by surprise as initially comes across as a bit dipsy cute etc

Hot though, like a poor man's daenerys

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Exactly, how she's alluded to sacking people and only giving a **** for 30 seconds, then snippets of behaviour around her daughter, makes me feel she'd have no qualms getting rid of men in her life. Can imagine she takes a lot of people by surprise as initially comes across as a bit dipsy cute etc

Hot though, like a poor man's daenerys

I'm sure she's a real drag if you get to know her.

 

[B80]

Shes alright my man. Good fun I must say.

 

[2Rocky]

Shes alright my man. Good fun I must say.

Following the HR theme:
Time to expand the roster. You have her locked in, but she won't get promoted. Interview some potential Interns. Give them a case study or two...

 

[zinc4]

It's always a big red flag OP. Only tramps and really insecure females have lots of guy friends. They will tell you everything under the sun how they are pure friends and how its perfectly normal and natural blah blah blah. Then act like you are jealous or easily threatened if you call out their BS put for what it is. These women are never high quality OP.

High quality women who are attractive know that every man around them secretly wants to **** her and dont play this male friend BS nor make up fairy tale lies to justify their need for validation or whatever it may be. This one is not relationship material. Treat her as such. Honestly i despise women like her. Cheat on her for the hell of it. Not even joking. When she calls you out for cheating tell her you dont respect her ways and she isnt worthy of commitment. Let her go get another simp if she doesnt like it.

 

[zinc4]

Any woman that has zero empathy/affection for children should be avoided automatically unless you are dating casually. This generally means they are lacking overall feminine traits and are not compatible for anything long-term. And I don't necessarily mean that you have to want to have kids yourself - but any woman I have known that is worth anything is naturally good with kids. I have learned the hard way otherwise.

Facts just saw this.

Not liking children and even animals is a major red flag for a woman. Especially children. Never met one who said that who wasnt a rough acting cold hearted *****.

Literally the opposite of feminine.

 

[Bigpapa]

Exactly, how she's alluded to sacking people and only giving a **** for 30 seconds, then snippets of behaviour around her daughter, makes me feel she'd have no qualms getting rid of men in her life. Can imagine she takes a lot of people by surprise as initially comes across as a bit dipsy cute etc

Hot though, like a poor man's daenerys

To give you an example , I had to go to the airport early , so I ended up at a girl as she was closer To the airport then I was

I was thinking that even though she is average , she was quite affectionate, made Me a massage , etc

this made me think how important is for a woman to take good care of the man is , as I feel super good after spending some hours with her

I feel way better than banging a super hot woman that does not really do anything so I can enjoy my time with her after sex

the trick is to find a woman that is both good looking and affectionate . That affection man makes you feel like a lion

 

[zinc4]

To give you an example , I had to go to the airport early , so I ended up at a girl as she was closer To the airport then I was

I was thinking that even though she is average , she was quite affectionate, made Me a massage , etc

this made me think how important is for a woman to take good care of the man is , as I feel super good after spending some hours with her

I feel way better than banging a super hot woman that does not really do anything so I can enjoy my time with her after sex

the trick is to find a woman that is both good looking and affectionate . That affection man makes you feel like a lion

This is 100 percent true actually.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

To give you an example , I had to go to the airport early , so I ended up at a girl as she was closer To the airport then I was

I was thinking that even though she is average , she was quite affectionate, made Me a massage , etc

this made me think how important is for a woman to take good care of the man is , as I feel super good after spending some hours with her

I feel way better than banging a super hot woman that does not really do anything so I can enjoy my time with her after sex

the trick is to find a woman that is both good looking and affectionate . That affection man makes you feel like a lion

True the right physical validation expands a males masculinity and his sexual swagger.