Male Company

[Rainman4707]

How much time do you guys spend with other males??

I find myself spending no time at all with my male friends lately.
I work unsociable hours & the time I have off dose'nt match their time off.

I work & spend most of my spare time with my GF.

 

[amazingswayze]

I chill with my bros a few times a week. I prefer alone time sometimes because I'm either at the gym, studying, or just chilling out and I hate to be bothered. I used to be available for my friends almost every single day but my priorities changed. It's hard to measure my time spent with friends though. Not too often.

 

[mangotot]

Male company is really for teenagers and early twenty somethings. After that stage you concentrate on work sexual relationships and stuff. You usually get in the company of men mostly because of work purposes and the like.

 

[Rainman4707]

I have had oppurtunities to see my friends.
I was at home thinking about how I need male company. Then my friend rang asking if I wanted to go for hill sprints that evening with him & our mutual friend.
I declined as I prefer to train in the morning.

 

[Rainman4707]

Male company is really for teenagers and early twenty somethings. After that stage you concentrate on work sexual relationships and stuff. You usually get in the company of men mostly because of work purposes and the like.

Dr Robert Glovers advice in his book No More Mr Nice guy is for nice guys to hang around with Males.
It will be a good idea for Don Juans to have Male company in their life.
I remember when I played in a football team or when I went to Boxing training. It's good to be around other Males because if you spend all your time with women you may turn into a pu**y

 

[Tenacity]

Honestly the only guys I "hang with" are business related partners, associates, etc.

I guess I'm over the stage of hanging out with a group of guys so the idiots can talk about how "fat" a chick's a.ss is but none of them want to go actually talk to the chick because they are scared as hell.

I notice that when I hang with other older men of more "business or professional" means, we have a LOT more in common than most of the immature idiots around my age group.

Plus most guys my age aren't on my level in terms of income and education as well. If you are going to have guy friends, PLEASE MAKE SURE you are not the smartest, richest and most fit of the bunch. Don't keep a gang of idiots around you. I do fundamentally believe that your closest guy friends should be "better than you" in some form or fashion.

 

[evan12]

I think male company is important , in the past most men has friends , but these days most men is busy either finding women , or taking care of women after they find them .

 

[Desdinova]

Mine are usually too busy working stupid hours or allowed themselves to be chained down by their GFs. I usually make friends at my regular hangouts, but it rarely goes past that.

 

[Tenacity]

Can I rant on this topic for a minute lol? I get on this Market of Women a lot in terms of being low quality, but this Market of Men are majority pieces of shyt as well. Most men are losers, overweight, lazy, BROKE, no ambition, they create children and don't even ATTEMPT to Father them, they don't vote, etc., etc. Now I am Black, so a lot of my personal experiences come from being around Black Men even though lately over the last couple of years since I've been living in the Suburbs, I haven't been around Black Men hardly at all.

But in my opinion, as you continue to improve your life in all areas (finances, fitness, career, college, and dating) you need to surround yourself with other guys who are either on the same levels as you or HIGHER. Never hang around men lower than you. The reason being is that guys on lower levels than you usually become jealous of your continued progression, success and improvement. Plus I fundamentally believe that your closest guy friends should "teach" you something or "aspire" you to become something, well if everybody you hang around are pieces of trash, where's the inspiration in that?

Also (which is my biggest PET PEEVE), sometimes these lazy, broke idiots might start asking you for money. I swear when a grown a.ss man asks me for money, I have to "catch" myself from socking this piece of shyt in the mouth. As a grown man, you NEVER ask another grown man for money, you absolutely NEVER do that.

If anything you ask him for an opportunity, ask him for work, ask him for a job tip, etc. You absolutely, never, ask another grown man for money and I don't care if you are freaking homeless. If any of you guys on this Forum do that, please no longer do that.

Okay, now my rant is over

 

[thatfeel]

Male company is really for teenagers and early twenty somethings. After that stage you concentrate on work sexual relationships and stuff. You usually get in the company of men mostly because of work purposes and the like.

Are you serious mate?

 

[ubercat]

Wtf guys - so chick friends r pointless. And u don't vwant to hang with bros. How the heck r u gonna have a social circle?

 

[mangotot]

Plus most guys my age aren't on my level in terms of income and education as well. If you are going to have guy friends, PLEASE MAKE SURE you are not the smartest, richest and most fit of the bunch. Don't keep a gang of idiots around you. I do fundamentally believe that your closest guy friends should be "better than you" in some form or fashion.

Just make sure you keep them away from your women, the women might end up chasing them because they are a better catch.

 

[mangotot]

Are you serious mate?

This is what I observed. Guys get it on with their chick and spend less time with guy buddies. Certainly after marriage and kids different priorities come about. If you are going to get together with guys as the other poster alluded to, hang out with guys who are better then you.

 

[Malcontent]

Having guy friends is an excellent idea. But, yes, screen them. You don't want to hang out with lowlife types. You want friends who enhance your life.

Reconnecting with guys has motivated me to:

Develop new sport interests/hobbies/etc
Work out harder
Hell, even socialize more
etc...

Besides, for those MRM guys who want to end the tyranny of feminism, how are you gonna do it without being connected to other guys? The lone man = stronger feminist agenda.

 

[Malcontent]

This is what I observed. Guys get it on with their chick and spend less time with guy buddies. Certainly after marriage and kids different priorities come about. If you are going to get together with guys as the other poster alluded to, hang out with guys who are better then you.

These are usually the guys who are completely devastated when their relationships end. They put all their stock in a chick and then suddenly are all alone.

 

[Augustus_McCrae]

It's important to have friends. It makes you a more well rounded, interesting man. Also, sometimes your friends can see things you don't.

And as malcontent said, if you go through a divorce or breakup, it can make a big difference if you have friends to lean on. I honestly don't know what I would have done if my friends weren't there when I got divorced.

-Augustus-

 

[EverSure75]

I think male company is very important,but it should be the right kind of company.
As said above it should be men you consider on par with you or better and men genuinely interested in your success.

I have some friends I went to university with. We all graduated together and are still in touch. I'm the only one of the old crew that isn't married. I'm also the only one actively pursuing a hobby and trying to turn it into something profitable. We all communicate via imessage group. I noticed that whenever I would share some breakthroughs I was having in my side business they would go silent or start discussing something totally different without even a comment on what I shared.

I realised that was their insecurities talking.
So share with other men...but ensure its the right kind of company.

 

[logicallefty]

I don't hang out with my male friends too often these days.. but I still know which ones will have my back, and which ones id give a kidney too if necessary, even after we haven't hung out in a long time.

 

[DaddyLongShanks]

I do that thing too not running up behind guys after getting a woman, but with the rise of ****** empowerment, it might be a WRONG thing to do. Think about the "rat pack" back in the days with Sammy Davis, and many other groups of similarly motivated males. It's necessary. Your babe can be a running buddy, but shouldn't be the only one.