Male Attractiveness: Does It Lead to Jealousy?

[flowtheory]

At the end of the day, more people worry about others than bettering and fortifying their own situation and life.
If people want to get jealous, let them. Resentful? Let them. Their weaklings who have a trajectory towards a treacherous life.
Be grounded within your own self and work to improve on your own experience; recognize where you need to repair.

 

[drakeisfire]

I'm going to weigh in here. I don't think it's fair to say uglier guys hate the OP's guts because he's getting more attention then they are. I think it's more likely they would be resentful of the women, not the guy. It's because women ignore the uglier guy completely or treat him like sh1t while being extra nice or throwing themselves in the OP. With that behavioral dynamic I don't know why women aren't the focus of the discussion because at least men are still civil to uglier women if you are not attracted to them. There is no excuse for bad behaviour from women which is really fueling all of that.



Again, it's the behaviour of women that are at issue. If every guy could get a woman regardless of how they look, relative on the scale of how, then there would be no need for any such discussion. The problem is when even ugly women are holding out for chads and everyone is inflated because of the internet and there is no bottom.

Nope, it is has nothing to do with women. People do not envy men, they envy the rich for having it. Same here, they do not hate the women, they hate the guy who gets the women they want.

Common sense, lets use it.

 

[corrector]

Nope, it is has nothing to do with women. People do not envy men, they envy the rich for having it. Same here, they do not hate the women, they hate the guy who gets the women they want.

Common sense, lets use it.

If you look at incel sites, I think there is allot of issues directed against women so your views are not realistic. Men do not inspire any issues unless they are a snob towards other guys who aren't as successful in the ladies department, but at that point, that would be projection, not actual envy as you claim.

 

[drakeisfire]

If you look at incel sites, I think there is allot of issues directed against women so your views are not realistic. Men do not inspire any issues unless they are a snob towards other guys who aren't as successful in the ladies department, but at that point, that would be projection, not actual envy as you claim.

If you go to incel sites, they often berate other men even those that are good looking. Outside of worshiping the rich famous male model, most of them hate on a lot of handsome guys. A lot of them are saying certain guys who are handsome are too "nerdic" (white and blond) or too "ethnic" (handsome but not white).

 

[flowtheory]

What are the incel sites?