"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Malcom X

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I was taking a nap today while my fiancee was watching TV in the living room. I woke up when I hear her say god damn he's good looking. So I go in there and she has a biography of malcom x on. you have to remember she's not from here, she has no clue who malcom x is. But she knows one thing, if he were alive, she'd rape him. Got me thinking.. seriously.. malcom x was a good looking dude. politics for or against a side, you can't show me one better looking, just purely on looks guy. dude is extremely handsome

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/cb/Malcolm_X_NYWTS_2a.jpg

http://common-breath.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/Malcolm-X.jpg

I always felt as a black guy i Had an advantage talking to white women, because I'm different.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I mean I don't go around rating political activist on their looks or antyhing but when put in those terms, I can see why women are attracted or where attracted to him.
 

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Malcolm X was a hell of a handsome dude. Not to mention he was articulate as f***. Oh and let's see he also was part in ERECTING CIVIL RIGHTS.

But you're saying your wife wanted to jump his rod just by looking at his pictures? She knew nothing of his historical feats, correct?

Let's see if he looks like anybody else we know......
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Malcolm X was a hell of a handsome dude. Not to mention he was articulate as f***. Oh and let's see he also was part in ERECTING CIVIL RIGHTS.

But you're saying your wife wanted to jump his rod just by looking at his pictures? She knew nothing of his historical feats, correct?

Let's see if he looks like anybody else we know......
she was born and raised in london,s he's only been here 6 years.
 

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In a country where a former actor has been choosed as president no surprise that people care more about image than content.
Seriously I'm surprised that John Wayne did not get elected to face the evil communist russians during the cold war.

Anyway the women have a special talent to vote good looking morons who make their best to take away from workers to give to the unproductive parts of the population,as long as a politician is good looking and does not talk too much about politics he will get support from them.

But it's not their fault it's just the modern democracy where a hunter who provided the meat and four slackers have equal weight on how to make the portions.
 

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It's too bad Spike Lee took a great story and made a crappy movie out of it.
 

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Don't forget he was a pimp in his early days :) And I say that with respect.

Detroit Red!! was his name.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't forget he was a pimp in his early days :) And I say that with respect.

Detroit Red!! was his name.
 

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If you're interested in Malcom X. You should definitely check out these Interviews with professor Manning Marable. He spent his life studding Malcom X and talks about the censored chapters of his autobiography. The book came out last month.

http://www.democracynow.org/tags/manning_marable

On a side note. It's something that is looked down upon around there parts, but engaging in political activism is one of the most rewarding, intellectuality stimulating, and social things I have ever done.
 

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I also feel that native indians, tibetans, arabs, jews, hindu, and pacific islander asian men have an advantage talking to white women because there different as well.
 

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backbreaker said:
Got me thinking.. seriously.. malcom x was a good looking dude. politics for or against a side, you can't show me one better looking, just purely on looks guy. dude is extremely handsome
I think he's a decent looking guy, but I don't think he's THAT great looking. It's not like he's Tyson Beckford. Speaking of social activist with looks and game, Che Guevara could clean house if he had wanted.

I always felt as a black guy i Had an advantage talking to white women, because I'm different.
Actually, a black guy is generally at a disadvantage talking to white women because there's a lot of social pressure for white women to not talk to black guys. If you take an average looking black guy and an average looking white guy both with the same level of income and game and had them talk to nothing but white girls for a night, the black guy will have to work much harder to get the same result. Especially if they are limiting their approaches to girls that are in shape and rate 7 and above.

The caveat is, the minority of white women that DO like black guys will probably pursue them more aggressively thus making it seem like white chics are falling out of the sky for you. You've said that you make a lot of money, are in good shape, good looking and have a lot of game. Well if that's the case, you could do good with any type of women for that matter, but let's not downplay what the reality is for MOST men, not outliers like yourself.
 
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