"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making the right move

Matty

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Okay, there's this girl I've been friends with for quite a while now. I'm practically 100% sure she's interested in me, and I'd like to take our friendship to another level. I'm not talking relationship status, but I'd at least like to start hooking up with her. However, I'm pretty sure she's interested in another guy, as well, and I'd like to make a move before he does. We just hung out today, and I'd like to set things in motion, but I'm unsure of what my next move should be. Do I wait for her to establish contact with me again? Or do I take the initiative to set up another rendezvous? I don't want to exude desperation or needy-ness, but I feel time is kind of the essence here.

Any comments would be much appreciated.

-Matty:cool:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ARrocket

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Now, this is a very touch subject. I'm pretty inexperienced myself, but I'll get the ball rolling here, and let's hope that others pitch in :)

It depends on how close you have gotten to this girl. The closer of a friend you are to her, the more complicated (and unlikely that it's gonna work) this is gonna be.

I think you should start to use some heavy kino on this girl, and gauge her reaction. Start to see a bit less of her....lots of C&F, flirt to the max. Maybe let her know about some other girls....get that jealousy factor working...it's powerful ;)

Anybody else got any ideas? I'd love to learn more on the subject myself :)
 
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