"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Making the right move

Matty

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Okay, there's this girl I've been friends with for quite a while now. I'm practically 100% sure she's interested in me, and I'd like to take our friendship to another level. I'm not talking relationship status, but I'd at least like to start hooking up with her. However, I'm pretty sure she's interested in another guy, as well, and I'd like to make a move before he does. We just hung out today, and I'd like to set things in motion, but I'm unsure of what my next move should be. Do I wait for her to establish contact with me again? Or do I take the initiative to set up another rendezvous? I don't want to exude desperation or needy-ness, but I feel time is kind of the essence here.

Any comments would be much appreciated.

-Matty:cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ARrocket

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Now, this is a very touch subject. I'm pretty inexperienced myself, but I'll get the ball rolling here, and let's hope that others pitch in :)

It depends on how close you have gotten to this girl. The closer of a friend you are to her, the more complicated (and unlikely that it's gonna work) this is gonna be.

I think you should start to use some heavy kino on this girl, and gauge her reaction. Start to see a bit less of her....lots of C&F, flirt to the max. Maybe let her know about some other girls....get that jealousy factor working...it's powerful ;)

Anybody else got any ideas? I'd love to learn more on the subject myself :)
 
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