"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making The Babe Wait For Sex

StoneCold

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Hello

I been dating a babe from eastern europe , well shes totally attracted to me i assume, complys with everything i say and do, lots of kino and kissing to

we Just met though and been on 1 hangout spent 4 hours togthere....

So we planned to do another fun thing,, ice skating...day 3

i mean i enjoy doing all this stuff, and i know she does too, so im thinking are we holding off sex, i mean will i lose my chance if i dont **** her soon...

the signals seem to be their...... also i want to wait till i have it all planned out,

we are kissing and holding passionalty though :yes:

wot you think:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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If the oppertuinty present itself, just go for it because you can't tell if she is going to be there tomorow. That is when you going to be kicking yourself and saying "why didn't I fvck her!!!!???"
 

Dongfu

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You gotta plan the right adventure where you end up in a house with a bed, or somewhere you can escalate. I dont think you wanna try to hit her doggy style while ice skating.
 

Gamble

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it's all in your head and how you perceive it, if you think you are going to lose the chance for the lay later on, then it will most likely happen. If you are truely confident on holding it off then it will happen.
 

Rex Man

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Kissing and holding passionately? First off, stop using the word passionately.
Secondly, fuk her soon, as in, the next get together.

HB: I had fun!
S. C.: Me too. Wanna come watch a movie?

Done!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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StoneCold

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Nice stuff!!!

My house is Far though and the babe shares an apartment!!!

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tony-montana

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i wouldn't take chances like that. the girls get bored easy and if you make her wait (depending on how hot she is) they will just go to another guy cause they CAN. chicks always got guys lined up.
 

saber

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break it down..
figure 5 good reasons THIS girl could JUSTIFY going to your house so she WONT feel bad/cheap/un-romanced

On someone elses advice I put my bed about 3' higher than normal(cynder blocks). I call it my fort/tell them it makes me feel like a litltle kid blah blah and girls (friend or hb) love to jump on and try it out.

sexual tension is unspoken

my 2 cents
 
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