"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Making The Babe Wait For Sex

StoneCold

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2003
Messages
157
Reaction score
0
Hello

I been dating a babe from eastern europe , well shes totally attracted to me i assume, complys with everything i say and do, lots of kino and kissing to

we Just met though and been on 1 hangout spent 4 hours togthere....

So we planned to do another fun thing,, ice skating...day 3

i mean i enjoy doing all this stuff, and i know she does too, so im thinking are we holding off sex, i mean will i lose my chance if i dont **** her soon...

the signals seem to be their...... also i want to wait till i have it all planned out,

we are kissing and holding passionalty though :yes:

wot you think:confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

DJDamage

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2004
Messages
5,657
Reaction score
104
Location
Canada
If the oppertuinty present itself, just go for it because you can't tell if she is going to be there tomorow. That is when you going to be kicking yourself and saying "why didn't I fvck her!!!!???"
 

Dongfu

Banned
Joined
May 22, 2007
Messages
943
Reaction score
5
Location
Wherever the Dong guides me, but mostly Hawaii
You gotta plan the right adventure where you end up in a house with a bed, or somewhere you can escalate. I dont think you wanna try to hit her doggy style while ice skating.
 

Gamble

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 24, 2007
Messages
75
Reaction score
0
it's all in your head and how you perceive it, if you think you are going to lose the chance for the lay later on, then it will most likely happen. If you are truely confident on holding it off then it will happen.
 

Rex Man

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 18, 2005
Messages
613
Reaction score
2
Location
Midwest
Kissing and holding passionately? First off, stop using the word passionately.
Secondly, fuk her soon, as in, the next get together.

HB: I had fun!
S. C.: Me too. Wanna come watch a movie?

Done!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

StoneCold

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 19, 2003
Messages
157
Reaction score
0
Nice stuff!!!

My house is Far though and the babe shares an apartment!!!

!
 

tony-montana

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 2, 2007
Messages
363
Reaction score
1
i wouldn't take chances like that. the girls get bored easy and if you make her wait (depending on how hot she is) they will just go to another guy cause they CAN. chicks always got guys lined up.
 

saber

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 4, 2007
Messages
360
Reaction score
3
break it down..
figure 5 good reasons THIS girl could JUSTIFY going to your house so she WONT feel bad/cheap/un-romanced

On someone elses advice I put my bed about 3' higher than normal(cynder blocks). I call it my fort/tell them it makes me feel like a litltle kid blah blah and girls (friend or hb) love to jump on and try it out.

sexual tension is unspoken

my 2 cents
 
Top