"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making snarky remarks to women when...

ThisNThat

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Sometimes I hear about men's dialogue with women when it comes to setting things up, but the woman blows them off, when their fickle interest level gets the best of them (the women), lose interest a day after giving out a #.

Some men should stay tongue and cheek, but some can't help but to keep their mouths shut and make a snarky comment in the woman's direction like, "Oh, too busy, eh? I see how you are." or some remark that comes off like the guy is a bit irritated with her.

Is that when men lose control of the situation? The upper hand? Shows that they "got to you"?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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