"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is a follow-up to this thread...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133649

So we actually ended up going to a improv show and it really worked out. We spent 4 hrs afterwards talking over dinner and later in her car. We didnt fool around - but we definitely got a lot more comfortable physically.

Taking a advice of a girlfrd I emailed her earlier this week and she wrote me back a couple of days later enthusiastically. I let her know in the email that I liked her and that the date was fun (as adviced by another girl who knows me) - She expressed similar feelings. We talked a couple of times over the phone since.

So we might go out again tommorow night - It just so happened. At this point I am thinking I want to take it to the next level and get more physical with her. We have really connected, But i am not sure how to approach from this point. I want to make it clear to her that I am into her - but I want to do that right.

This girl is diff from the others I went out with - as she seems pretty normal and successful in her life. With the others we ended up in bed pretty much by the second date - So I want to do this the right way.

Any ideas? help me guys...

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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If you want to escalate the kino....take her clubbing

Just make sure you dont enter the friend zone man....make your intentions known but DONT tell her your feelings!

just SHOW her you like her by escalating kino

GOOD LUCK man
 
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HarlequinMan said:
If you want to escalate the kino....take her clubbing

Just make sure you dont enter the friend zone man....make your intentions known but DONT tell her your feelings!

just SHOW her you like her by escalating kino

GOOD LUCK man
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I wish I could dance - I am going to start one of these days. I got the ph number of another hottie over the weekend and she is into dancing too....Oh well.

I am very aware of the friend zone. Thats why I have decided I will go for it the next time I see her...if it doesnt work out atleast I know i tried.

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