"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Making progress....Need help

Cosmo_K78

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This is a follow-up to this thread...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=133649

So we actually ended up going to a improv show and it really worked out. We spent 4 hrs afterwards talking over dinner and later in her car. We didnt fool around - but we definitely got a lot more comfortable physically.

Taking a advice of a girlfrd I emailed her earlier this week and she wrote me back a couple of days later enthusiastically. I let her know in the email that I liked her and that the date was fun (as adviced by another girl who knows me) - She expressed similar feelings. We talked a couple of times over the phone since.

So we might go out again tommorow night - It just so happened. At this point I am thinking I want to take it to the next level and get more physical with her. We have really connected, But i am not sure how to approach from this point. I want to make it clear to her that I am into her - but I want to do that right.

This girl is diff from the others I went out with - as she seems pretty normal and successful in her life. With the others we ended up in bed pretty much by the second date - So I want to do this the right way.

Any ideas? help me guys...

Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you want to escalate the kino....take her clubbing

Just make sure you dont enter the friend zone man....make your intentions known but DONT tell her your feelings!

just SHOW her you like her by escalating kino

GOOD LUCK man
 

Cosmo_K78

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HarlequinMan said:
If you want to escalate the kino....take her clubbing

Just make sure you dont enter the friend zone man....make your intentions known but DONT tell her your feelings!

just SHOW her you like her by escalating kino

GOOD LUCK man

I wish I could dance - I am going to start one of these days. I got the ph number of another hottie over the weekend and she is into dancing too....Oh well.

I am very aware of the friend zone. Thats why I have decided I will go for it the next time I see her...if it doesnt work out atleast I know i tried.

Thanks.
 
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