"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Making Out W/ Chicks

CORVETTE06

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I made out with a lot of chicks. Some kiss good, some are bad. Or is it just me who is a bad kisser?

I always used to make out with my girlfriend of 2 years. At first, she sucked at it but then she got better after the first week.

I notice that when you make out with girls for the first time its not that good, but naturally, we both get used to each other.

- - What is the right way to kiss a girl? - -

Some girls stick their tounge in too much and slober on you.
Some girls don't stick their tounge out at all.
Some girls move their tounge round and round and round.

There was ONE girl where she did it perfectly the first time.

Maybe I am the one who is not good? Here is how I THOUGHT you should kiss. Someone please correct me/ give me pointers if i am wrong.

What I do:

I don't move my tounge round and round and round in a continuous motion like a drill. I also don't slober all over a girl - that's gross. What I do is I touch my tounge with theirs, and I move my tounge in no particular pattern. But i do move my tounge, i don't just leave it hanging in there. you just like softly caress her tounge.

IDK if thats right or wrong, but what are you supposed to do with your tounge? also what do you do with ur hands? when i am in my car i usually put one hand on her theigh and the other one on her back. and i move my hands up and down and touch around.

What do you do with the girls who are like afraid to stick their tounges out??
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CORVETTE06

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also, when you make out with a girl, how long do you make out for?
 

wrender

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I think you're going about it the right way. The random tounge movement seems to be the best way to go. You can also get creative and do the little tip to tip toungue lick.

One thing that I like to do with my hands from time to time is place one hand on the side of her face or use a hand to gently lift her chin up for more kissin' action. the other hand can still do whatever, or possibley be place on the back of her head while caressing the face with the other. I wouldn't do this too much tho. It seems to have more of an effect if it's done sparringly

Women seem to love this.
 

brenbaus

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here's a tip: let her kiss you first (no, not wait and wait and wait for her to kiss you cause she wont make that move) what i am saying is when you kiss her the first time let her SHOW you how she likes to be kissed. Most people kiss the way that they like to be kissed, problem solved
 

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Gently at first. Follow her pace until you catch on and then lead.

Tongue use varies...I personally prefer a woman who uses the tongue sparingly. Too much tongue while kissing is like too! much; punc,tuatio'n ?in !a! sen.ten"ce.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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