"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making Out W/ Chicks

CORVETTE06

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I made out with a lot of chicks. Some kiss good, some are bad. Or is it just me who is a bad kisser?

I always used to make out with my girlfriend of 2 years. At first, she sucked at it but then she got better after the first week.

I notice that when you make out with girls for the first time its not that good, but naturally, we both get used to each other.

- - What is the right way to kiss a girl? - -

Some girls stick their tounge in too much and slober on you.
Some girls don't stick their tounge out at all.
Some girls move their tounge round and round and round.

There was ONE girl where she did it perfectly the first time.

Maybe I am the one who is not good? Here is how I THOUGHT you should kiss. Someone please correct me/ give me pointers if i am wrong.

What I do:

I don't move my tounge round and round and round in a continuous motion like a drill. I also don't slober all over a girl - that's gross. What I do is I touch my tounge with theirs, and I move my tounge in no particular pattern. But i do move my tounge, i don't just leave it hanging in there. you just like softly caress her tounge.

IDK if thats right or wrong, but what are you supposed to do with your tounge? also what do you do with ur hands? when i am in my car i usually put one hand on her theigh and the other one on her back. and i move my hands up and down and touch around.

What do you do with the girls who are like afraid to stick their tounges out??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CORVETTE06

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also, when you make out with a girl, how long do you make out for?
 

wrender

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I think you're going about it the right way. The random tounge movement seems to be the best way to go. You can also get creative and do the little tip to tip toungue lick.

One thing that I like to do with my hands from time to time is place one hand on the side of her face or use a hand to gently lift her chin up for more kissin' action. the other hand can still do whatever, or possibley be place on the back of her head while caressing the face with the other. I wouldn't do this too much tho. It seems to have more of an effect if it's done sparringly

Women seem to love this.
 

brenbaus

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here's a tip: let her kiss you first (no, not wait and wait and wait for her to kiss you cause she wont make that move) what i am saying is when you kiss her the first time let her SHOW you how she likes to be kissed. Most people kiss the way that they like to be kissed, problem solved
 

squirrels

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Gently at first. Follow her pace until you catch on and then lead.

Tongue use varies...I personally prefer a woman who uses the tongue sparingly. Too much tongue while kissing is like too! much; punc,tuatio'n ?in !a! sen.ten"ce.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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