"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Making Moves on Girls in Related Social Circles

TheSlasher

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Say, you're hitting up two to four girls in the same university, or that they might not belong to the exact same circle, but their circles are familiar with one another.

How do you go about this?

We know about "the Girl Network", right?

And we all know that most of the time, it's us guys who make the move (girls are very self-counscious, so they secretly hope and very very VERY covertly do something to make a move on you because they know that their fellow members of the female species can sense this). Since this is the case, how would that affect your game on them?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skinnyguy

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Stop being a little puss and ask her on a date. Who cares what your "social circle" thinks
 

Masculinity

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As long as there is not direct link (i.e., they're in the same sorority, are friends, or are related) I wouldn't worry about social circles.
 

Mr Wright

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At uni I banged multiple girls who were close friends and knew about it. It depends on the group dynamic but most girls are cool with it if you're the right guy. Basically, if they expect it from you, they don't care.
 

Krueg

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Be weary of girls who hit on you, their either Hor's, Desperate or trying to boost their own ego. Now, some girls who known you for awhile may try being in your presence and flirt a little bit to show their interested. Wondering why or when you will ask them out.

But, here is the great thing about approaching a woman that interests you. You know right then and there if she is Interested. Introduce yourself, make small talk and ask for the number. If she gives you the number, wait 2 or 3 days, call her and set up a date. Its that simple. If she cancels, she aint that interested... Good Luck!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mangotot

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Amoung themselves They'll be giving you marks on size and Performance. Make sure you a winner.
 

TheSlasher

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skinnyguy said:
Stop being a little puss and ask her on a date. Who cares what your "social circle" thinks
It's not "my" social circle I'm talking about; it's how they will either try to avoid me, or start a competition amongst themselves.

For example, let's say I'm flirting with both or three or four of them regardless of who was attracted first (me or any of the girls), will they warn each other and see me as a *****? Or will they compete amongst themselves to see who catches the guy?
 
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