"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Making Moves on Girls in Related Social Circles

TheSlasher

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Say, you're hitting up two to four girls in the same university, or that they might not belong to the exact same circle, but their circles are familiar with one another.

How do you go about this?

We know about "the Girl Network", right?

And we all know that most of the time, it's us guys who make the move (girls are very self-counscious, so they secretly hope and very very VERY covertly do something to make a move on you because they know that their fellow members of the female species can sense this). Since this is the case, how would that affect your game on them?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skinnyguy

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Stop being a little puss and ask her on a date. Who cares what your "social circle" thinks
 

Masculinity

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As long as there is not direct link (i.e., they're in the same sorority, are friends, or are related) I wouldn't worry about social circles.
 

Mr Wright

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At uni I banged multiple girls who were close friends and knew about it. It depends on the group dynamic but most girls are cool with it if you're the right guy. Basically, if they expect it from you, they don't care.
 

Krueg

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Be weary of girls who hit on you, their either Hor's, Desperate or trying to boost their own ego. Now, some girls who known you for awhile may try being in your presence and flirt a little bit to show their interested. Wondering why or when you will ask them out.

But, here is the great thing about approaching a woman that interests you. You know right then and there if she is Interested. Introduce yourself, make small talk and ask for the number. If she gives you the number, wait 2 or 3 days, call her and set up a date. Its that simple. If she cancels, she aint that interested... Good Luck!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mangotot

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Amoung themselves They'll be giving you marks on size and Performance. Make sure you a winner.
 

TheSlasher

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skinnyguy said:
Stop being a little puss and ask her on a date. Who cares what your "social circle" thinks
It's not "my" social circle I'm talking about; it's how they will either try to avoid me, or start a competition amongst themselves.

For example, let's say I'm flirting with both or three or four of them regardless of who was attracted first (me or any of the girls), will they warn each other and see me as a *****? Or will they compete amongst themselves to see who catches the guy?
 
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