When most men go on dates they go in fear. Afraid of doing something wrong or saying something wrong. Anybody dating with this mindset are at a big disadvantage before the date has even begun. Then the date comes along and they are paralysed with fear. Thats why we see all the "I fvcked up threads".
Because of the fear of making a mistake it causes the person to think about everything they are doing or saying. They become very self conscious and the female will easily pick up on this a mile off.
People who over think things, over think things because basically they think everything has to be perfect to impress the woman and they end up putting themselves under huge pressure.
A change of mindset is needed. It's not the mistakes but its how you react to the mistakes you make. You can turn a negative into a positive by simply doing nothing.
Instead of seeing mistake as being bad try looking at it from another angle. DJ's make mistakes too but the thing is how the DJ's react to the mistakes. They don't really care and the woman knows this. They don't get flustered. They actually make the situation into a positive because they show the woman that they're not bothered by mistakes and that they are still comfortable in the situation.
So to sum it up most of the time when a person thinks he "fvcked up" by saying or doing the wrong thing he really fvcked up by reacting badly to his own mistake.
Because of the fear of making a mistake it causes the person to think about everything they are doing or saying. They become very self conscious and the female will easily pick up on this a mile off.
People who over think things, over think things because basically they think everything has to be perfect to impress the woman and they end up putting themselves under huge pressure.
A change of mindset is needed. It's not the mistakes but its how you react to the mistakes you make. You can turn a negative into a positive by simply doing nothing.
Instead of seeing mistake as being bad try looking at it from another angle. DJ's make mistakes too but the thing is how the DJ's react to the mistakes. They don't really care and the woman knows this. They don't get flustered. They actually make the situation into a positive because they show the woman that they're not bothered by mistakes and that they are still comfortable in the situation.
So to sum it up most of the time when a person thinks he "fvcked up" by saying or doing the wrong thing he really fvcked up by reacting badly to his own mistake.
