"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Making her earn your affection

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With a girl you have already kissed, and been out on a bunch of dates with. Should you jump at every opportunity to kiss her, or make her earn your affection?

IMO I feel that if you jump at every single opportunity it will loose its luster. What do you think?

Also, should you always capitalize on an opportunity to kiss the girl (when you know its what she wants) OR should you not give her what she wants to keep the 'control' to your advantage?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go at your own pace, if you jump at every opportunity to kiss a girl then she's eventually going to get sick of it, and maybe even you. I don't like it when "dating gurus" teach guys that girls need to win over their affection. Just fvck it all, live in your own reality, there's no trade market of affection being shared; it's all on you.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
kiss? Do you mean fvck? That's how she earns your affection.
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LoL. Exactly. :D

Whatever you do, you don't "reward" her by taking her out on a bunch of dates, just to get kissed. Even if she's the one paying or you're going dutch, why would you prolong the end result by wasting time with that, which only serves as a detour?

Get her alone, and give her what she wants, before it is too late.
 
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