"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making her earn your affection

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With a girl you have already kissed, and been out on a bunch of dates with. Should you jump at every opportunity to kiss her, or make her earn your affection?

IMO I feel that if you jump at every single opportunity it will loose its luster. What do you think?

Also, should you always capitalize on an opportunity to kiss the girl (when you know its what she wants) OR should you not give her what she wants to keep the 'control' to your advantage?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Go at your own pace, if you jump at every opportunity to kiss a girl then she's eventually going to get sick of it, and maybe even you. I don't like it when "dating gurus" teach guys that girls need to win over their affection. Just fvck it all, live in your own reality, there's no trade market of affection being shared; it's all on you.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
kiss? Do you mean fvck? That's how she earns your affection.
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LoL. Exactly. :D

Whatever you do, you don't "reward" her by taking her out on a bunch of dates, just to get kissed. Even if she's the one paying or you're going dutch, why would you prolong the end result by wasting time with that, which only serves as a detour?

Get her alone, and give her what she wants, before it is too late.
 
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