Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Making her earn your affection

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With a girl you have already kissed, and been out on a bunch of dates with. Should you jump at every opportunity to kiss her, or make her earn your affection?

IMO I feel that if you jump at every single opportunity it will loose its luster. What do you think?

Also, should you always capitalize on an opportunity to kiss the girl (when you know its what she wants) OR should you not give her what she wants to keep the 'control' to your advantage?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go at your own pace, if you jump at every opportunity to kiss a girl then she's eventually going to get sick of it, and maybe even you. I don't like it when "dating gurus" teach guys that girls need to win over their affection. Just fvck it all, live in your own reality, there's no trade market of affection being shared; it's all on you.
 
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Bible_Belt said:
kiss? Do you mean fvck? That's how she earns your affection.
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LoL. Exactly. :D

Whatever you do, you don't "reward" her by taking her out on a bunch of dates, just to get kissed. Even if she's the one paying or you're going dutch, why would you prolong the end result by wasting time with that, which only serves as a detour?

Get her alone, and give her what she wants, before it is too late.
 
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