So I've discovered that playfully making fun of girls (neg/****y funny) works really really well for me. But I'm too socially inept to discern the difference between playfully making fun of a girl and saying something so mean it makes the girl cry and run off to another guy. So how do I know when I'm going too far with the neg?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Making fun of girls: how to know when you're going too far?
- Thread starter Demystify
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
arutha
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Since sooo much of C&F depends on delivery not what you actually say, you can't say x amount will make her cry. You've discovered that it works, now why don't you discover how far you can push it? Always more targets if you scare a couple away, then you know your own limit. See what works.Demystify said:
In my experience though, C&F is not offensive at all and its not meant to be, as long as you keep it witty not insulting, remember the F stands for FUNNY, I have pretty much laid on the C&F non-stop on girls and they keep coming back for more. Its just playful teasing, you shouldn't be insulting at all. As long as shes still laughing don't stop. Just remember it is not your only tool, it works really well with kino and mix it up a bit.
the whole purpose of making fun of a girl is to do it to girls who need to be taken down a notch cuz they think they're hot sh!t cuz guys always go AFC for them....if you say that stuff to a girl who could have lower self esteem then you could really upset the poor girl and make her self conscious and she wasnt even in need of the 'neg' to begin with lol
the other day i was on a double date, and on the drive to the place, me and the other guy were up front and my female friend and my hb8 date she hooked me up with were in the back. i was looking back cuz i was merging and i said "hey move ur big ass head outta the way i gotta see if theres any cars"(said it in a cute way) she laughed and said something to my female friend like "oh my god is he always such a jerk"......she was mine the rest of the night. hasn't returned my text from yesterday yet though lol but oh well.
the other day i was on a double date, and on the drive to the place, me and the other guy were up front and my female friend and my hb8 date she hooked me up with were in the back. i was looking back cuz i was merging and i said "hey move ur big ass head outta the way i gotta see if theres any cars"(said it in a cute way) she laughed and said something to my female friend like "oh my god is he always such a jerk"......she was mine the rest of the night. hasn't returned my text from yesterday yet though lol but oh well.
moneyisking
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you want to know the biggest wisdom in using and how to sue CF? Not giving a fvck about it. That's it. So she gets offended, who gives a sh!t? Plus if you do CF with that kind of attitude, she can read it. But if you use CF worried to death if you're overdoing it or if she will get offended, trust me, you are doing it all wrong and she will use that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Depends on the girl, some women I treat with more respect them others...The Knew Guy said:
Once a girl asked me to to make a photo of her look better using photoshop, I pasted a picture of megan fox face on her face and sent to her: "Thats the only way this photo can look better."
Amazingly she laughed as f*ck. lol
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Lol!The Knew Guy said:
Right now I wish I had pasted the picture of Susan Boyle on her face...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.