"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Making Conversation Flow/Groups

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Well first off I'd like some basic info on how to make a conversation flow. I can only normally manage hi, how are you, name etc before I ask stupid questions or just freeze up and walk away defeated

Plus say the one girl you want to talk to (been getting positive signs, etc) is with two of her friends. Im not 'scared' but whenever shes around I just don't seem to have the right motivation, which is **** because I'll regret it when I get back home
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taste

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The best way to make conversation flow is to tap into your passions and goals. Also the only way to have better conversations is to have alot of it. If you take the approach of not giving a **** what happens, you'll find that you'll have more to say because you aren't worried about how you come across.

You don't really have to be the best talker in the world. I know guys that hardly talk but they get women because when they talk they come from a place of passion. They talk about their interests with emotion and power, theres nothing sexier to a woman. Well except maybe a bit of cocaine but I don't reccomend that :D

I also reccomend watching alot of comedies because it helps you develop that impromptu witty attitude where everything just flows and you don't give a ****.

Again, tap into your passions.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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read books, watch tv/movies and focus just on the dialogue. Talk to ppl ur comfortable talking to already and try to realize what you do right when u talk to them, that u forget to do wen talking to others. Practice talking to people that want to talk to you (waiters, customer service ppl, telemarketers etc). Try to practice analyzing what ppl say, and find something in their sentence u can use as a follow up question.
 
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