"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Making Conversation Flow/Groups

TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Well first off I'd like some basic info on how to make a conversation flow. I can only normally manage hi, how are you, name etc before I ask stupid questions or just freeze up and walk away defeated

Plus say the one girl you want to talk to (been getting positive signs, etc) is with two of her friends. Im not 'scared' but whenever shes around I just don't seem to have the right motivation, which is **** because I'll regret it when I get back home
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taste

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The best way to make conversation flow is to tap into your passions and goals. Also the only way to have better conversations is to have alot of it. If you take the approach of not giving a **** what happens, you'll find that you'll have more to say because you aren't worried about how you come across.

You don't really have to be the best talker in the world. I know guys that hardly talk but they get women because when they talk they come from a place of passion. They talk about their interests with emotion and power, theres nothing sexier to a woman. Well except maybe a bit of cocaine but I don't reccomend that :D

I also reccomend watching alot of comedies because it helps you develop that impromptu witty attitude where everything just flows and you don't give a ****.

Again, tap into your passions.
 

Darth_Qurashi

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read books, watch tv/movies and focus just on the dialogue. Talk to ppl ur comfortable talking to already and try to realize what you do right when u talk to them, that u forget to do wen talking to others. Practice talking to people that want to talk to you (waiters, customer service ppl, telemarketers etc). Try to practice analyzing what ppl say, and find something in their sentence u can use as a follow up question.
 
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