Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Making abs more defined

jon3947

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I am 15 yrs old, eat healthily, and i am in good shape.

My only problem is that my abs arent well defined. If i flex you can see the outline of them, but i want those bodybuilder abs, can you guys reccomend any excersizes to help improve my abs
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Berlex

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more cardio...you'll need to lower your body fat % to around 8-9%
 

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Give us your stats:

Height, weight, estimate bodyfat percentage.

You aren't going to get bulging abs unless your overall musculature rises proportionally.

And if you're a typical skinny 15 year old, it's going to take 12-18 months of hard work(proper strength training, good nutrition, and adequate cardio) before you'll be somewhat happy with the results, and a further 12-24 months to look like the image you have in your head.

Don't worry though, start now and you'll never regret it. Read some threads in The Vault sticky to learn how to achieve your goals.
 

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I am 5'6" 145 lbs, not a typical skinny teenager, i have huge pecs that are easily defined by a shirt, pretty big calves, ripped thighs, average biceps, and i cant find an ounce of fat on me. Also my waist is 26in. (66 cm.) When i pinch all i get is skin, no fat on my hips, and my stomach, and also my ribs are pretty well defined, so i guess my bf% is no more than 10%, all i am looking for is a way to get the full package
 

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lol before i get ****ted on just know I'm trying to help though usually I tell people what they don't want to hear, even if it's for the best.

You said 5'6, 145. I don't know what your standards are but to me that is skinny. It's not really that bad at your age, you'll likely still grow a few inches(my buddy went from 5'7 to 6'6 in 9th-10th grade). Yet it is still skinny, and you could hardly have huge pecs at 145lbs. Again this isn't a bad thing, I'd just like to redefine your standards.

And I don't know what 'defined ribs' means.. people coming out of concentration camps in 1945 germany had defined ribs too.

Anyways lets get down to business.

What are your goals, besides a sick set of abs? Be detailed, even find a pic on the internet of someone you aspire to look like. You're 145 now, what weight do you want to be by this time next year? stuff like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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squat- 160
deadlift-140
bench-150
just guesses i havent done these in a year, i have been working on abs and cardio for the past year, for two months i have been running 4mi. daily and doing ab work 5 times a week.
 

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jon3947 said:
squat- 160
deadlift-140
bench-150
just guesses i havent done these in a year, i have been working on abs and cardio for the past year, for two months i have been running 4mi. daily and doing ab work 5 times a week.
dude i'm wayyyyyyy skinnier than the first person you posted
squat is 255
deadlift- dunno exactly, but higher than 140 for sure.
and my bench 2 years ago was 155 back when i was 14.
 

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If you want bodybuilder abs become a bodybuilder.

If you were 190 lbs at 15 yrs old without an ounce of fat then I would say you were not typical.

Go to the vault and read Where to Start and Simple starting diet and apply.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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