"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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making a women senti, and then consoling her?

fast_n_furious

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hey guys, from the past few days, i was just wondering what are the techniques, guys could possibly use to make women emotional or basically sentimental. so that you can know more about their past, or in other words how you can arouse them to tell about about incidents or things that really hurt them and then console them, thereby building trust.
basically the objective is to first make the women senti. so that she may disclose anything or any incident that has had or is still having a negative impact of her, and making her tell you about it in detail, and when she is really down n out, using other techniques to make her feel good, and the again changing her mood to the positive, that way building up her trust in u, and at the same time, discovering about something, that she would not normally share with anyone. i believe if this can be sucessfully done, it would really help a guy come closer to a women in a short time.
so what are the methods you will use to make her fall into that emotional state, where she would like to share with you things she wont like to ?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Senti?
is that like sentir = French "to feel?"
 

blienk

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I think "senti" his personal abbreviation for sentimental.
 

fast_n_furious

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blienk is absolutely correct, although its not really my personal abbreviation, its a very very popular slang word used for sentimental here. in fact its been years since i have had anyone using the word sentimental...lol
cheers
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Stop trying to manipulate her

How's this for a crazy idea? Try being trustworthy. Don't manipulate her into telling you things in a lame attempt to 'build trust'. Just support her when and if she needs it.
 

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mate, becoming a dj i believe isnt all about true love exactly, i mean use can always use these techniques to find true love n all, depends on ur priorities, but wouldnt it be a cool idea to have this tool in your armoury too ?? you have the control over someone else's emotions and u can manipulate it to suit you, its just about buliding another tool, and i guess i would like to go for it anyways.
so any idea, any one, what u wld do if u were in my shoes ?
 
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