"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making a girl think to the past..

toddC

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Okay, well about a month ago I broke up with this one chick who recently started talking to me A LOT again. So last weekend I decided to invite her to hang out with me on a weekend night. She said she arleady had plans and that was the end of that. Then yesterday I told her that my roomate from college (IU 2010 baby! ha) is coming to visit me this upcoming weekend and she said she wanted to hang and meet him. Now that made me think...maybe she does want me again...I'm also going to look at her prom dress tommorow so my tuxedo will match her dress ( were goign to prom togehter still). So I told her I'd take her home from school and then look at the dress. Now we will be at her house at about 3;30...my appointment for my tux isn't until 5 so taht gives me an hour and a half to hang around...Now how do I ask her if she wants to hang w/o sounding desperate?

Also, tonight -- thinking that she was interested in me again, I IMed her on AIM...Now we just started talking and I brought up that I"m always the life of the party and that she never has fun w/o me...and it turned into this playful argument....i was arguiing with like recent fun memories we had together (now I did this thinking it was a good thing...is this true)? She just laughed and played along and then when she had to go was like we'll finsih this argument tommorow...Now what do I do and/or what should I be expecting/pushing for with her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Skilla_Staz

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I always stress treating an ex just like any other girl. Don't act any different than you would with some girl you just met last week.
 
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