"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Makes out with me but won't put out...

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TillTheEndOfTime

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It's been 4 days. If I was that impatient, I would have NEVER had a gf in my life.

Not all girls are ready to have sex in less than a week. If you want that, go to POF or OKC.

That's the problem with the mentality some people around here have and PUA theory in general. If you don't get sex right away, you automatically assume that something is wrong. Maybe it is your "game", maybe she is banging another guy, etc, etc. Then you drop the girl. Later, you meet a girl who has sex on the 2nd date. You automatically assume that she is a slvt because she had sex so soon and then move on to the next girl.

It is a vicious cycle that tends to lead nowhere fast.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There are a thousand things you can do between making out and P in V (or A), loverboy.
 
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movistar

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Well it went down last night.... So alls well that ends well.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
It's been 4 days. If I was that impatient, I would have NEVER had a gf in my life.

Not all girls are ready to have sex in less than a week. If you want that, go to POF or OKC.

That's the problem with the mentality some people around here have and PUA theory in general. If you don't get sex right away, you automatically assume that something is wrong. Maybe it is your "game", maybe she is banging another guy, etc, etc. Then you drop the girl. Later, you meet a girl who has sex on the 2nd date. You automatically assume that she is a slvt because she had sex so soon and then move on to the next girl.

It is a vicious cycle that tends to lead nowhere fast.
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EVERY girl will have sex on the first night with a guy that she is into. That's the treatment I want, not the nice guy who hangs around hoping for a shot.
If you meet a girl and you hang out hot and heavy for 4 days and she is into you, it will definitely go down in that time frame.. I've hung out with a women before that I liked, but wasn't into them sexually, I don't want to waste time with women that feel that way about me. It's not all about sex, but I definitely use it as an indicator of interest.
 
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