Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Makes out with me but won't put out...

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TillTheEndOfTime

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It's been 4 days. If I was that impatient, I would have NEVER had a gf in my life.

Not all girls are ready to have sex in less than a week. If you want that, go to POF or OKC.

That's the problem with the mentality some people around here have and PUA theory in general. If you don't get sex right away, you automatically assume that something is wrong. Maybe it is your "game", maybe she is banging another guy, etc, etc. Then you drop the girl. Later, you meet a girl who has sex on the 2nd date. You automatically assume that she is a slvt because she had sex so soon and then move on to the next girl.

It is a vicious cycle that tends to lead nowhere fast.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are a thousand things you can do between making out and P in V (or A), loverboy.
 
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movistar

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Well it went down last night.... So alls well that ends well.
 
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TillTheEndOfTime said:
It's been 4 days. If I was that impatient, I would have NEVER had a gf in my life.

Not all girls are ready to have sex in less than a week. If you want that, go to POF or OKC.

That's the problem with the mentality some people around here have and PUA theory in general. If you don't get sex right away, you automatically assume that something is wrong. Maybe it is your "game", maybe she is banging another guy, etc, etc. Then you drop the girl. Later, you meet a girl who has sex on the 2nd date. You automatically assume that she is a slvt because she had sex so soon and then move on to the next girl.

It is a vicious cycle that tends to lead nowhere fast.
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EVERY girl will have sex on the first night with a guy that she is into. That's the treatment I want, not the nice guy who hangs around hoping for a shot.
If you meet a girl and you hang out hot and heavy for 4 days and she is into you, it will definitely go down in that time frame.. I've hung out with a women before that I liked, but wasn't into them sexually, I don't want to waste time with women that feel that way about me. It's not all about sex, but I definitely use it as an indicator of interest.
 
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