"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Makeout Advice Needed From The Men ;D

delighted_mistress

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Well, so you see, I've decided that a little 'how to' thread would be very useful to us girls, as the only ones I've seen lately are more directed for male benefit than female.

I would love it if you men of this website would care to share with me some of your own personal makeout tips. My current relationship is amazing, but I find the makeout and kissing part a lot harder this time around. In my last relationship, making out just came naturally and we just flowed, but the guy was a jackass. My current beau and I are really good together, and he's just amazing... biggest problem is that kissing him makes me feel awkward because he's nothing like I'm used to, and I'm not quite sure how to go about kissing him back. Sooo, I figured what the hell, whatever tips you guys throw out, I'll try, and hopefully will end up finding a good method that works for his kissing style.

It's worth a shot. I'm getting a little tired of coming up with trial and error techniques by myself, so... yeah. Have at it! Tell me what you male figures like to see in a makeout session.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well it doesn't show up as small on this computer, though I did change it for the benifit of those who think otherwise =D
 

Master Bates

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why don't you just not change the font at all. what is it with girls on the internet using crazy fonts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ThunderMaverick

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Hm I think It all about the attitude of the person and how THEY themselves feel about kissing. For some people, it's just a green light for sex or crossing one side of the street to the next. They don't see kissing as a joy ride, a scenic route. Something to really enjoy. If sex is the destination, then kissing is the road traveled.

Where am I going?

Why do you feel uncomfortable with kissing him? What are you use to when it comes to kissing? What makes it so bad?
 

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Search the tao of sex and proceed from there - there is enough free material to not have to buy the book.
Take your time and have fun! no rushy rushy to the finish line.
 
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